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The art of receiving with distinction

A distinguished guide for the Latin American host: from the tablecloth to the last toast — fine dining as an act of hospitality and style.

«To receive is to offer a night the guest will remember: not for what was served, but for the way they were made to feel».

— HOUSE TRADITION
FIRST

Three principles of the good host

The host leads

In the Latin American tradition, the hostess indicates the seats and opens each course. No guest sits or begins before she signals it — a courtesy that gives the evening its rhythm.

Punctuality is elegance

Guests arrive fifteen minutes ahead for the aperitif. Dinner is served at the agreed hour: keeping the cook waiting is as thoughtless as arriving late.

Detail speaks for the house

The fold of the napkin, the temperature of the wine, the hush of porcelain set down: every detail speaks of the care behind the occasion.

THE TABLE SETTING

The four layers of the royal table

The tablecloth and charger
I

The tablecloth and charger

White, ivory or ecru linen, ironed without creases. On top, a charger — silver, porcelain or cut crystal — that marks each guest's place and stays until dessert.

The cutlery, outside in
II

The cutlery, outside in

Cutlery is laid in the order it will be used: appetizer pieces furthest from the plate, main-course pieces closest. Knives on the right, blades facing the plate; forks on the left. Dessert cutlery lies above, parallel to the table's edge.

Crystal, in a noble diagonal
III

Crystal, in a noble diagonal

Above the main knife, in a diagonal toward the center: the water goblet first, then the red-wine, the white-wine, and — where appropriate — the champagne flute. Never more than four glasses per guest.

The porcelain, silent protagonist
IV

The porcelain, silent protagonist

Soup plate over the dinner plate when broth is served; bread plate to the left, aligned with the tip of the fork. Between courses, plates are changed in silence: fine porcelain is set down, never dropped.

THE EVENING

From aperitif to sobremesa

  1. 20:00

    Aperitif

    Reception in the sitting room with chilled sparkling wine, sherry or a light cocktail. Discreet canapés, music barely audible.

  2. 20:30

    First course

    Guests are led to the table. A cold starter or a light soup opens the palate. White wine is poured from the right, never filling more than two-thirds of the glass.

  3. 21:00

    Main course

    Meat, fowl or fish from the house's grill. The red is decanted in advance and served at Latin American ambient temperature — sixteen to eighteen degrees.

  4. 21:45

    Cheese and dessert

    A board of aged cheeses with quince paste, or fresh goat with honey. Dessert in individual porcelain; champagne accompanies the course or opens the after-dinner conversation.

  5. 22:30

    Sobremesa

    Our most Latin rite: coffee, cognac or an aged rum; conversation lingers without haste. The hostess leaves the table only when the last guest wishes to rise.

SHORT CODE

Seven gestures of good taste

  • 01

    The napkin goes folded on the lap the moment the hostess does so; at the end, it is placed to the left of the plate, not fully refolded.

  • 02

    Elbows never rest on the table during the courses; hands, yes — up to the wrist.

  • 03

    Taste before salting. Asking for salt before tasting is a silent slight to the host.

  • 04

    Bread is broken by hand, never cut with a knife, and never bitten whole.

  • 05

    Cutlery laid parallel, handles right: I have finished. Crossed in a V: I am still eating.

  • 06

    The toast is made looking into the eyes. The glass is raised; clinking is reserved for family gatherings.

  • 07

    Phones stay off the table. In a distinguished home, the table is sacred.

ATMOSPHERE

Flowers, light and silence

Low and horizontal

Centerpieces should not rise above twenty-five centimeters: the line of sight between guests is never broken.

Discreet fragrance

Tea roses, hydrangeas, orchids or foliage are preferred: nothing that competes with the aroma of the food or wine.

Pure wax candles

Lit at dusk, white or ivory, unscented. Candlelight ennobles any table.

Every great evening begins with the table

Discover the pieces our house has curated: hand-wrought cutlery, mouth-blown crystal and porcelain from Europe's most distinguished manufactories.

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